I too am a family member of Steve's. He has taken care of my sister over the past several years and has had a lot of obstacles in doing so. She is disabled and needs his care just to be able to survive.

Our family is devastated by what has taken place. My heart just breaks thinking about the loss the families have experienced and I can't say enough about how bad we all feel.

I have never had to experience anything like this before in my life, but as a Christian I always try to forgive and learn. There are no winners in this situation and suggesting throwing someone under a bus is just ignorant. Try to put yourselves in Steve's shoes, no one feels worse about what has happened that he does, he will never be the same. Ignorant comments don't help anyone.