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A year later, woman back to work, finally
“(Unemployment) was always someone else’s problem. But now I see that behind every percentage, there’s families.”
Paula Gray, 51, pictured Monday outside her home, now has two jobs after a year of looking that included a profile in this newspaper.
Tuesday, Aug. 4, 2009 | 2 a.m.
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She tried handing out business cards on a highway off-ramp, a broad straw hat between her and the sun.
She reached a table at a casino job fair after four hours in line only to get laughed at for having a resume with too many jobs and a college degree. After months of not finding a job, and after a newspaper article about her search, estranged family and old friends called and e-mailed to offer help.
And then, as if scripted, 12 months after beginning her longest bout of joblessness since college, 51-year-old Paula Gray got three job offers in as many weeks. The first one came almost a year to the day after she had lost her job of eight years as an administrative assistant at a construction company.
She said yes to two full-time jobs.
Her voice on the phone one recent afternoon was leavened with new life as she said, “I just got off work.”
One of her new jobs pays less than her unemployment checks did. Nevertheless, she said, “to be working again feels so different.”
“It makes me feel like I’m valuable, or purposeful. Like there’s a reason to go to bed at night, or wake up in the morning.”
The plucky redhead got media attention in an April 11 Sun article about her single-minded stunt of handing out business cards on the shoulder of the I-15. But even that just brought job interviews, the roller coaster that tens of thousands ride amid a 12 percent unemployment rate, the don’t-call-us routine, the hope followed by silent rejection.
“It truly is depressing after a while, to keep filling out applications ... to keep being told no,” Gray said.
She became frustrated with the Las Vegas job market, feeling out of place because of her education and employment history.
“Looking back I wished I’d taken my college degree or some of my experience off my resume,” she said. “Maybe I would have gotten a job quicker.”
She decided at one point that the routine was wearing her down, that she had to reconnect with family in Baltimore. But on the night of June 14, the day before her flight, she got a call from a national time-share company. It wanted her to interview for a customer service job the next morning. She moved her flight back.
“Walking out of the interview,” she recalled, “I felt different.” She got on a plane that evening.
The company called back July 4, of all days. She didn’t hear her cell phone ring. She found a message: “We would like to offer you employment. We’re willing to wait until you return from your trip.”
Several weeks later, her second day on the job, she got an e-mail about an application she had filled out 12 months earlier. It was another offer. And then she got a call with another.
She has worked out a graveyard schedule with the time-share company and starts a daytime job in purchasing with a major Strip property this week.
Gray said she has to work both jobs because of the hole she dug during the past year — about $10,000 in personal loans, not to mention robbing from her 401k account. After 12 months of waiting shoulder-to-shoulder for interviews with hundreds of out-of-work people from across the valley, she feels as if she represents “not just myself, but also many others.”
Now, she said, “I really think differently about unemployment. That was always someone else’s problem. But now I see that behind every percentage, there’s families, people with bills to pay, issues that are impossible to measure with numbers.”
She has also learned a few lessons along the way, including the frugality many Americans are discovering in this riptide of an economy.
“I used to eat out more often. I haven’t bought clothes except for interviews. I ask my doctor to prescribe generic medicine. I clip coupons now and I never used to pay attention to that. I see which gas stations charge 10 cents less. It’s amazing, how much money I used to burn through,” she said.
She also has more family and friends in her life now. “I make some decisions now almost by committee,” she said.
The committee was concerned about her taking two jobs, fearing it could wear her down. “But I feel the more I have to do, the more I’ll do,” she told them.
Gray is still reeling from the “you’re hired” feeling she got from a few phone calls and e-mails only weeks ago.
“It was such a relief. I felt like I was stepping out of the twilight zone,” she said.
She has no explanation for why the search ended in a tumble of good news, after so much failure.
“If I knew what it was, I’d bottle it and sell it,” she said, laughing.
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Good going Paula, the American way still works. Too many are just sitting back and saying "poor me". Nobody said life is fair or easy but at least here in America we have a chance. Good luck to you and the many others that are trying. I did the same thing four months ago and it feels good! Even though I'm earning less, at least I working.
The "American way" is at best a crap shoot and statistically random chance works better.
If a "crap shoot" didn't work at least once and a while...there would be no Vegas!
There is light at the end of the tunnel!! When the economy was good and my friends and I were working at the jobs we got years ago, we used to complain about how we wish we didn't have to work so hard, how we wished we could have taken a 2 month vacation, blah blah blah. NOW I am tired of this forced "vacation" I'm on and how I wish I could go back to work again! Anywhere!! It DOES make a difference on how you feel every day, about how you feel about yourself. Until you are in this situaton, you don't realize how important it is for not only financial reasons, but for yourself. To get up in the morning and have a purpose.
I, too, have "dumbed down" my resume because I was tired of NO ONE even calling and giving me a chance at an interview!! Or even acknowledging they received your resume. My guess is they figured I wanted top dollar and that wasn't the case, and I worded my cover letters appropriately. I was surprised last week when I actually received "rejection" letters from two firms I applied to; both letters said how impressed they were with my resume, but the position has already been filled. At least they acknowledged receiving my resume!! I was impressed since professional courtesy is certainly lacking here. And I don't see it getting any better and that's why I made the decision to leave Las Vegas and move back home. At least I have enough family members and friends back there that I won't end up homeless, which, as the days go on, seems like it is getting closer.
Paula's story has given me hope even though I never have and won't give up looking for a job, regardless of where I live.
The economy will bounce back. Government spending created many jobs in the Great Depression, Hoover Dam for example. Some paint that as socialism, others as a wise public investment -- found a cool site; Balkingpoints ; incredible satellite view of earth
Good for her! Quite a challenge considering our out-of-control government and their tax and spend policies. I hope her job holds but let's face it, Obamanomics have failed our country and Harry Reid and Nancy Pelosi are a major part of that redistribute our wealth policy (Socialism).
I had a similar experience several years ago. The majority of businesses do not want poeple with degrees in Las Vegas. Our economy is built on jobs that do not require analytical thinkers. Until we somehow diversify, that will always be the case.
i was looking for work and i got to the point i was looking at wal-mart, fast food, etc.
i couldn't find anything and i finally took my college degree off my resume and sure enough...i found something.
sad that education is a liability in this country.
seems like they want dumb people that will work for them forever because they won't be able to go someplace else.
That casino was probably the dummies with Station Casinos. Yeow, they're brilliant!!!
Obamanomics have failed our country and Harry Reid and Nancy Pelosi are a major part of that redistribute our wealth policy (Socialism).
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Helllllooooo! This woman lost her job when? And WHO was president at the time?????
I do believe you have the wrong names inserted in your comments.
Obamanomics. According to some of you and your moronic comments, it seems you think that Obama has been president since 2000 and that he is the cause of all of the country's problems. Please check your calendars and acknowledge and understand the year we are in.
Bravo
This story on this person would not be a story if her background included some kind of technical expertise or specialized skill (preferably technical or scientific). That's where the jobs in America have migrated to. At least, the ones that pay a living wage (80K-100K a year).
Nicely said Katie!!
In any event, Hi Paula!!! I didn't know that was you, I would have spoken up a while ago!!!
If your applying for a job that does not require a college degree and you have one, it's not surprising that you fail to get it. Why? Employers are looking to hire someone who will stay around. A degreed person usually sticks around long enough to find a better job. So it's not a case of employers looking for dummies, it's about not having to constantly rehire and retrain employees. For that same reason, many employers are wary of degreed and non-degreed applicants who change jobs frequently.
For awhile employers had a trend of hiring those that had many different jobs. The thinking being that these were competent people who moved around to enhance their work experience and to better themselves, thus bringing a wealth of knowledge to the new employer. In most cases it was incompetent people being asked to move on with the current employer finding out the hard way.